I was suppose to have a date on Saturday afternoon. Just a simple coffee date. His name was Phil and we met on Match about 2 weeks ago. He contacted me because as he put it "You have a beautiful smile and kind heart from what I read in your profile." I wasn't too interested in him based on his profile but figured he was worth emailing back and forth. After dozens of emails, he asked me to meet up for coffee. I agreed. Throughout this process, he found me via Facebook and friended me. Harmless, right? Saturday morning at about 2 am (at least thats when the email came through) he emails saying that he doesn't think he can meet me. After looking through my Facebook account, it is clear that I am Liberal and can't date a person who voted for Obama let alone a person who has friends who are Gay. Are you FREAKING kidding me??!!! I get the Liberal thing but because I have Gay friends, he can't date me or just meet for Coffee??! Can we say close minded prick??! I emailed him back in the most PC Liberal fashion and pretty much told him to stick it but also thanking him for not wasting anymore of my time. I wasn't so upset with the date being cancelled but for him trying to make me feel bad for having friends that are Gay.
I've been on Match for 4 months and I am NOT impressed. I'm going to ride out my 6 month commitment and then cancel once I am through. I am to the point now where if it's suppose to happen, it will happen. But I also have to get to place in my life where I need to be ok with being single and need to be ok with me possibly being single my whole life. As much as I want love, marriage, and a family, there is a chance it wont happen for me and I need to be ok with that. I'm not giving up though. I truly believe that if someone really desires love, marriage, and a family, then those things will happen. Guess the point I am trying to make is, once I am at peace with myself and my life, I hope that all of the other pieces will fall into place too.
3 comments:
What a dipshit. All you can do is feel bad for people like that.
What an idiot - at least you didn't have to go through the pain of meeting the moron. He did you a favor.
I have a new client who's single and looking - I dont know him well enough yet to set him up, but I'll see what I can do!! :)
I'm glad that all I wasted on him was a few emails. He difinitely isn't worth anything more then that! Jack ass.
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